5 reasons why you are still single

 5 reasons why you are still single

When it comes to dating and relationships, it's hard not to feel that you are a victim. After all, others can be cruel; you will get hurt, but the reality is that we hold more power over our romantic destiny than we think.

To a great degree, we create the world we live in, although we are rarely concious of this process.

Some people are single because they choose to be, or due to some circumstances of their lives.

However, some people are also looking for answers to the question "why am I still single?"

Here are 5 reasons why you are still single

1. Your standards are too high

If you are expecting someone to be perfect then you are likely to remain single.

It's corrupted the way that people think love should look and feel. Believing the Bollywood narrative can have truly detrimental results for people who are searching for love.

Just because your boyfriend didn't walk out on his mum for your sake or quit his job because you need his attention doesn't mean that he doesn't care for you.

Setting realistic expectations in a relationship is absolutely necessary. If you are always finding faults in someone then you are likely to remain single.

2. You are scared of commitment

The fear of making the  and being forever connected to a partner that you are unhappy with can make settling down nearly impossible for you.

3.You keep choosing the wrong people

This happens all the time. People fall for someone who is nothing like their ex or just like their ex. This usually happens when you fear that you might end up with someone like your ex or when you actually want someone who is like your ex.

4. You want to be single

Not every single person is desperate for a relationship. Some people understand the power of a season of singleness. This is the timeframe were you just want to work on yourself and make sure you are whole: emotionally, financially,mentally and spiritually before bringing another person into your life.

5.You are scared of rejection

It doesn't feel great to be rejected but it feels worse slowly dying alone. Ask the person for their number and give it a try. It might work out for you or it might not, either ways, life moves on.